I ended up following the suggestion of this post: Spring Security RememberMe success handler or url filtering and implemented an AuthenticationSuccessHandler that I passed to both my form login config and my remember me config.
<http>
<form-login ... authentication-success-handler-ref="customAuthenticationSuccessHandler"/>
<remember-me authentication-success-handler-ref="customAuthenticationSuccessHandler"/>
</http>
<beans:bean id="customAuthenticationSuccessHandler"
class="foo.bar.CustomAuthenticationSuccessHandler" />
and then at the end of my overridden onAuthenticationSuccess in my CustomAuthenticationSuccesshandler I just put:
response.sendRedirect(response.encodeRedirectURL(redirectAddress));
and it works like a charm