You need to use mktime($datestring)
and set the $datestring variable in accordance to:
http://pl1.php.net/manual/de/function.mktime.php
in wordpress:
mktime(get_the_date("H"), get_the_date("i"), get_the_date("s"), get_the_date("n"), get_the_date("j"), get_the_date("Y"));
if you need to convert exact format shown above:
$datestring = '3. März 2014';
$dateelements = explode(" ", $datestring);
$day = rtrim($dateelements[0], ".");
$germanMonths = array(1 => "Januar", 2 => "Februar", 3 => "März", 4 => "April", 5 => "Mai", 6 => "Juni", 7 => "Juli", 8 => "August", 9 => "September", 10 => "Oktober " , 11 => "November", 12 => "Dezember");
$month = array_search($dateelements[1], $germanMonths);
$year = $dateelements[2];
$unixtimestamp = mktime(0,0,0,$month,$day,$year);
and if you have a date format in wp option, and $datestring is in that format:
$dateformat = get_option('date_format');
echo $dateformat;
$date = date_create_from_format($dateformat, $datestring);
$new_format = date_format($date, 'm,d,Y');
$unixtimestamp = mktime(0,0,0,$new_format);
echo $unixtimestamp;