While I still don't know if its possible to setup the trigger for the VisibleMonthChanged
event I was able to work around this by setting up the event in the code behind
ClubCalendar.VisibleMonthChanged +=new MonthChangedEventHandler(ClubCalendar_VisibleMonthChanged);
and then calling the Panel update method manually.
void ClubCalendar_VisibleMonthChanged(Object sender, MonthChangedEventArgs e)
{
StartDate = e.NewDate;
CalendarPanel.Update();
}