I want a Layout exactly like Grid Designer
As far as I know the Grid Designer
uses a special skin named the "DevExpress Design" and this skin is not intended to be used anywhere in user code. If you have DX-subscription with source code, you can extract skin-resources from DevExpress sources and load this skin explicitly.
Please, review the following article about the DevExpress Design skin in this regard.
is there any thing to do with Glyph Skinning ?
Just use the NavElement.AllowGlyphSkinning property.
Related help-article: Glyph Skinning.