Until April 30 2015 you should still be able to use the v1.0 of the Graph API. As CBroe wrote, the friends_* permission will be removed then.
You should be able to specify the Graph API version you want to use till then as described here: https://developers.facebook.com/docs/apps/versions#calling_from_supported_sdks
https://developers.facebook.com/tools/explorer?fql=SELECT%20read_friendlists%2Cfriends_birthday%20FROM%20permissions%20where%20uid%3Dme()
works for me if I choose v1.0 as version in the upper right corner's dropdown.