If you want to do a form POST (you're using the $_POST array on the server) you can do it this way -
var myForm = document.getElementById('<form id>'); // add an id to the form and use it here
var formData = new FormData(myForm);
xmlhttp.open("POST","findme.php",true);
xmlhttp.setRequestHeader("Content-type","application/x-www-form-urlencoded");
xmlhttp.send(formData);