If you need to create a VIEW, you could use something like this:
CREATE VIEW First_Four AS
SELECT c1.*
FROM
Child_Table c1 LEFT JOIN Child_Table c2
ON c1.ParentID = c2.ParentID
AND (STR_TO_DATE(c1.`date`, '%m/%Y')>STR_TO_DATE(c2.`date`, '%m/%Y')
OR (STR_TO_DATE(c1.`date`, '%m/%Y')=STR_TO_DATE(c2.`date`, '%m/%Y')
AND c1.ID>c2.ID)
)
GROUP BY
c1.ID, c1.ParentID, c1.`Date`, c1.Data
HAVING
COUNT(c2.ID)<4
I'm considering the field data as a VARCHAR column, so we need to use STR_TO_DATE, if it is not we can just compare c1.date
with c2.date
directly.
Please see fiddle here.