Your problem is that the tool buttons have a fixed size, and therefore when resizing, the label is the only type that can grow: Therefore: After adding the label, add stretch to the layout:
layout_steps->addWidget(label_steps_start);
layout_steps->addStretch();
Modified code - adds stretch at the bottom. Label size remains fixed, and buttons remain under it. I've removed the whole main window around the outside for the sake of testing.
int main(int argc, char *argv[])
{
QApplication a(argc, argv);
QWidget *widget_steps = new QWidget;
widget_steps->setFixedWidth(75);
widget_steps->move(QPoint(0, 0));
widget_steps->setStyleSheet("background-color: red;");
QVBoxLayout *layout_steps = new QVBoxLayout(widget_steps);
layout_steps->setContentsMargins(0, 0, 0, 0);
layout_steps->setSpacing(0);
QLabel *label_steps_start = new QLabel("steps:");
label_steps_start->setAlignment(Qt::AlignHCenter | Qt::AlignTop);
label_steps_start->setStyleSheet("background-color: blue;");
layout_steps->addWidget(label_steps_start);
//--- Removed.... layout_steps->addStretch();
QToolButton *tbutton_step1 = new QToolButton();
layout_steps->addWidget(tbutton_step1);
QToolButton *tbutton_step2 = new QToolButton();
layout_steps->addWidget(tbutton_step2);
QToolButton *tbutton_step3 = new QToolButton();
layout_steps->addWidget(tbutton_step3);
layout_steps->addStretch(); //<----- Added!
widget_steps->show();
return a.exec();
}