You are looking for the flock function. flock will work as long as everyone that acess the file is using it. Example from php manual:
$fp = fopen("/tmp/lock.txt", "r+");
if (flock($fp, LOCK_EX)) { // acquire an exclusive lock
ftruncate($fp, 0); // truncate file
fwrite($fp, "Write something here\n");
fflush($fp); // flush output before releasing the lock
flock($fp, LOCK_UN); // release the lock
} else {
echo "Couldn't get the lock!";
}
fclose($fp);