resolved,
the thing is that adb accept connection only from 12.0.0.1 no thing else.
so i install android in virtual-Box and redirect connection from 192.162.2.101 "my lan ip address" to 10.0.2.10 "android ip address in the emulator"(i do that in the virtual-box network UI".
and every thing work well.
adb "google emulator" is designed to be used/access in single host.