I made a few changes to your jsfiddle from what I understand to be your problem. In your jsfiddle you included jQuery so I thought I would add to your script. I have just changed how you have declared disabled in your input and also made a change to your script so that it now removes the disabled attribute on focus.
$('#test3').prop("disabled", false).focus();
If you want to go further and make it so that the user can't even select the placeholder slightly when it's e.g. disabled then you could alter the user select in the css by adding the following with the appropriate browser prefix:
user-select:none;
Example of that here: