Resolving DUPLICATE for a column with UNIQUE

Question

I have a few column with UNIQUE INDEX. In some queries, duplicates should be acceptable, in which a postfix should be added to the value. For example, if test title exits, we change it to test title-2.

Is there a way to make a unique value upon DUPLICATE?

INSERT INTO table1
  (title, abr, name) 
  VALUES
  ('title', 'abr', 'name')

In this typical example, all three columns are UNIQUE. When the INSERT fails, I do not know which col caused the error to change its corresponding value.

How can I make a query to change value to value-identifier upon duplicate error?