I figured it out. Rather simple. Trick is to make it a callback action through a url.
view
link_to "stop service", "/admin/service/delayed_job_stop"
routes
match "admin/service/:string" => "pages#toggle_service", :as => "toggle_service"
controller
def toggle_service
command = params[:string].to_s
if command == 'delayed_job_stop'
`script/delayed_job stop`
elsif command == 'delayed_job_start'
`script/delayed_job -n 2 start`
end
redirect_to :back
end