Buttons aren't possible but you can use mouse clicks and key strokes to control your video. For example, use left click to toggle play/pause and implement record via key stroke:
import cv2
run=False
frame=0
path=#some video path
def foo(event, x, y, flags, param):
global run
global frame
#check which mouse button was pressed
#e.g. play video on left mouse click
if event == cv2.EVENT_LBUTTONDOWN:
run= not run
while run:
frame+=1
frame=cap.read()[1]
cv2.imshow(window_name, frame)
key = cv2.waitKey(5) & 0xFF
if key == ord("v"):
pass
#do some stuff on key press
elif event == cv2.EVENT_RBUTTONDOWN:
pass
#do some other stuff on right click
window_name='videoPlayer'
cv2.namedWindow(window_name)
cv2.setMouseCallback(window_name, foo)
cap=cv2.VideoCapture(path)