Having looked a bit further into it, I found there are currently 2 possible solutions:
1) move the elements on the page is such a way that no overlap exists anymore. This way you don't get a "double drop".
2) add some custom code in the droppable that is also run when dropped. This should mark the dropped element with a timestamp when it was last dropped. The other element can check this and if it was dropped within X seconds it should ignore the drop.
For solution 2 different implementations are possible, but they all would be similar in a sense the first should mark the dropped element so the second can check that.
In my case I went with solution number 1, as it is the nicest solution that turns out to be a better layout of the page anyway.