If you want to /just/ get the results for Mondays, then just add the following to your where clause:
and datepart(dw,tblItem.dateOrder) = 1
If you want the query to contain a column for each day you'll have to use a case statement in the select part using the datepart for each day.
This is assuming that you're in the US.. the first day of the week varies by country
DatePart info - http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms174420.aspx