It was more simple than i expected.I loaded the images in my bean class like that:
private ImageIcon fivestars=new ImageIcon(getClass().getResource("/cr/hmp/gui/IMG/5star.png"));
Made my model to return an icon class in my getColumnClass:
case RATING:
return ImageIcon.class;
In my getValueAt i made:
return meal.getIconByValue( meal.getRating() );
And now updates the row after i close my EditFrame without any problem.