Sounds like you've got several issues here:
Firstly, the correct EPSG code for the Google Maps projection is 3857, not 3785. See my blog post at http://alastaira.wordpress.com/2011/01/23/the-google-maps-bing-maps-spherical-mercator-projection/ for an explanation of the rather complicated history behind the code.
Secondly, if you're using that SRS correctly, your coordinates should already be in metres. The coordinates of Big Ben in London, in EPSG:3857, for example, should be about (-13900, 6710330). If you've got coordinates like (51.5, -0.12) then those are WGS84 lat/lon, and you should be using the geography datatype with SRID:4326
Thirdly, 3857 is the projected coordinate system Google Maps uses to display spatial data, but the operations in its API use standard WGS84 (SRID 4326), so it might make sense to use that to store your data.
Very simply: if you want results in metres, you should either use the geography datatype with coordinates entered in degrees, or the geometry datatype with coordinates entered in metres.