You can use Telnet.
E.g. telnet example.com 80
to check if the server at example.com accepts connections on port 80.
Question
i am on a Windows machine and need to connect to an application on a Unix box under a certain port.
i've been told it's open but i'm still having difficulties getting in, is there anything in can do on my end to debug this? how can i check if the port of the Unix server is really open from my IP address?
Solution
You can use Telnet.
E.g. telnet example.com 80
to check if the server at example.com accepts connections on port 80.