SVN Edge helps you configure and manage a standard Subversion server that includes the binaries for. The Access Rules feature is part of Subversion itself as documented here:
http://svnbook.red-bean.com/en/1.7/svn.serverconfig.pathbasedauthz.html
You will want to use this feature to control who can read and write to your repository. That is as far as the Subversion feature goes.
What you want to do is further break down the write operation to control who can delete, which is simply one form of write. Subversion allows you to do that by inserting a pre-commit hook. Those are documented here:
http://svnbook.red-bean.com/en/1.7/svn.reposadmin.create.html#svn.reposadmin.create.hooks
It sounds like you found a hook that can do what you want. SVN Edge lets you upload hook scripts into the repository hooks folder via the web browser. If the hook script needs a configuration file, as is the case here, you can also upload that file. You just need to patch the hook as needed so that it can find the SVN binaries, as well as the configuration file you upload. The hook will run only AFTER the built-in SVN access rules have allowed someone with write access to get past its check.
So you need to give a user write access using the SVN Access Rules, and then take away the write access if they are trying to do something you do not want to allow them to do.