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Basically you can approximate a proximity level using tx+power - rssi or distance roughly with d = (rssi-A)/-20 (where A = rssi at one meter) or simply use rssi mapping out ranges to display You could also initially base it on just the connection range and skip rssi.
As for the FindMe, simply write the low or high alert values to make it sound when you press a button in your app. For pressing a button on the device use the UUIDs shown in the documentation.
sample code for that device is forthcoming