Use two targets in your build file. You can then choose which one to run when launching ANT:
ant run-server
and run-client
First target
<target name="run-server" depends="jar">
<java jar="${jar.dir}/${ant.project.name}.jar" fork="true"/>
</target>
Second target
<target name="run-client" depends="jar">
<java classname="EchoClient" fork="true">
<classpath>
<pathelement location="${jar.dir}/${ant.project.name}.jar""/>
</classpath>
</java>
</target>