Sounds to me like you have a bug or something like that, or maybe even a server side issue. I have never seen our systems come down under heavy loading, I have seen stress on the boxes while running AFP2PDF and such but never so much as to make the server crash.
The only thing I can suggest, is increasing the heapsize on your box that runs ODWEK, and make sure that you are up to date. We ran 8.5.0.6 BACKEND with 8.4.0.3 FRONT END while troubleshooting an isssue. I would open a PMR with IBM