I suppose that you could manually delete data from the materialized view logs before running the refresh. That would probably work. But it would not be a solution that I'd be really comfortable with. It would be a very bespoke solution that would probably not be officially supported. And it if there might ever be another materialized view that depends on the materialized view log, you'd have to ensure that you're only deleting those rows that relate to your materialized view's subscription. Plus, the materialized view on the destination would need to be updatable in order for you to be able to manually remove the rows older than 30 days via a separate process.
If these are the business requirements, something like Oracle Streams (or GoldenGate) would be a much more appropriate architectural solution. Those products are designed to give you more flexibility about which logical change records (LCRs) you apply. In Streams, for example, it is easy enough to create a custom apply handler that discards delete LCRs. And since you're applying LCRs to a table on the destination rather than a materialized view, your 30 day purge process is much easier to manage. This would be a relatively common Streams setup rather than a very unique materialized view setup.