If you want to make a mesh plot of your surface and you know the {X,Y,Z} of your surface, you can use mesh command in MATLAB to create mesh. for example:
[X,Y] = meshgrid(-8:.5:8);
R = sqrt(X.^2 + Y.^2) + eps;
Z = sin(R)./R;
mesh(X,Y,Z,'EdgeColor','black')
If you want to use the mesh data for other reason, why don't you try DistMesh? it is briefly a simple mesh generator for MATLAB.