You should be able to use the ipv4 package from go.net.
Package ipv4 implements IP-level socket options for the Internet Protocol version 4.
The ipv4.RawConn type and it's associated methods should work cross-platform.
A RawConn represents a packet network endpoint that uses the IPv4 transport. It is used to control several IP-level socket options including IPv4 header manipulation. It also provides datagram based network I/O methods specific to the IPv4 and higher layer protocols that handle IPv4 datagram directly such as OSPF, GRE.
There is also an equivalent package for ipv6.