Not familiar with AForge, but....
EDIT: First I was thinking that the weights are 2D and taught to resemble a grid, but this is even more educated guess: The moving grid of neurons you've seen is still not the SOM's nodes. The position of a SOM node is constant. The SOM is taught to abstract some dataset and a Sammon's mapping is likely used as a visualization method for the nodes' weights. The result is something like this and can probably be confused with the original SOM's lattice in which the nodes or "neurons" never move.
Note that this is still just an educated guess.