If you want to inherit from object than please give it a proper name. First check the code of already developed modules, to see how they inherit. And know the meaning of _inherit and _name.
Make the following change in your .py file.
from osv import osv
from osv import fields
class crm_lead(osv.osv):
_inherit = 'crm.lead'
_description = "adding fields to crm.lead"
_coloumns = {
'nitesh': fields.char('Nitesh',size=64)
}
And just in your view.xml you only put this code:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<openerp>
<data>
<!-- ========================This is Form layout===============================-->
<record id="crm_case_form_view_leads_extended" model="ir.ui.view">
<field name="name">CRM - Leads Form</field>
<field name="model">crm.lead</field>
<field name="inherit_id" ref="crm.crm_case_form_view_leads" />
<field name="arch" type="xml">
<field name="partner_name" postion="after">
<field name="nitesh"/>
</field>
</field>
</record>
</data>
</openerp>
With that you will see the nitesh filed add on crm.lead form.
Hope this will solve your problem.