this is what I use for oracle. Maybe it's just a matter of changing the jdbc information from the datasource (as any other datasource)
(sorry, no SQL Server here to test)
<beans xmlns="http://www.springframework.org/schema/beans" xmlns:amq="http://activemq.apache.org/schema/core" xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance"
xsi:schemaLocation="http://www.springframework.org/schema/beans http://www.springframework.org/schema/beans/spring-beans.xsd
http://activemq.apache.org/schema/core http://activemq.apache.org/schema/core/activemq-core.xsd">
<broker xmlns="http://activemq.apache.org/schema/core" brokerName="localhost" dataDirectory="${activemq.data}">
<destinationPolicy>
<policyMap>
<policyEntries>
<policyEntry topic=">" producerFlowControl="true">
<pendingMessageLimitStrategy>
<constantPendingMessageLimitStrategy limit="1000" />
</pendingMessageLimitStrategy>
</policyEntry>
<policyEntry queue=">" producerFlowControl="true" memoryLimit="1mb">
</policyEntry>
</policyEntries>
</policyMap>
</destinationPolicy>
<persistenceAdapter>
<jdbcPersistenceAdapter dataSource="#oracle-ds" />
</persistenceAdapter>
<systemUsage>
<systemUsage>
<memoryUsage>
<memoryUsage limit="128 mb" />
</memoryUsage>
<storeUsage>
<storeUsage limit="100 gb" />
</storeUsage>
<tempUsage>
<tempUsage limit="50 gb" />
</tempUsage>
</systemUsage>
</systemUsage>
<transportConnectors>
<transportConnector name="tcp" uri="tcp://0.0.0.0:61616" />
</transportConnectors>
</broker>
<bean id="oracle-ds" class="org.apache.commons.dbcp.BasicDataSource" destroy-method="close">
<property name="driverClassName" value="oracle.jdbc.OracleDriver" />
<property name="url" value="jdbc:oracle:thin:@localhost:1521:XE" />
<property name="username" value="xxx" />
<property name="password" value="xxx" />
<property name="poolPreparedStatements" value="true" />
<property name="maxActive " value="30" />
</bean>
</beans>