There's no easy way to achieve this from the user level. But here are a couple of ideas:
You could modify "src/HOL/Tools/ATP/scripts/remote_atp", the script that talks to SystemOnTPTP, to use your super-duper server instead.
The main issue then is parallelism. In jEdit, the Sledgehammer panel cannot run more threads simultaneously than it thinks your machine can handle, even though some of the threads are mostly running remotely. If you invoke Sledgehammer manually, using the "sledgehammer" command, you might be able to work around the restriction, but I'm not sure.
Incidentally, running more than 4 or 5 provers has a very modest effect on the success rate.