i finally succeed to achieve my question by appending the preUpdate function of the parent admin class :
here is the code :
public function preUpdate($objectif) {
// i get the _delete variable of my sonata_type_admin Image widget
$params = $this->getRequest()->request->get($this->getUniqid());
$image = $params['image'];
// if the checkbox is checked i set NULL to my objectif image
if ( isset ( $image['_delete'] ) && !empty ( $image['_delete'] ) )
{
$objectif->setImage( null ) ;
}else{
$objectif->setImage($objectif->getImage());
}
$this->manageEmbeddedImageAdmins($objectif);
}
// finally , i call my Image remove function to delete the media ...