If I understand your question correctly, the solution I would use is PHP
First of all you would need to save your page to .php for this to work (instead of .html)
Secondly, create a new file (menu.php) and paste in the MENU code above.
In every page that you have, you replace the menu HTML code with this:
<?php
include 'menu.php';
?>
(assuming you put the menu.php in the same folder as the rest of your pages)
Now, if the content of your menu expands, just edit menu.php and your menu is updated on all pages that have your menu.php file included.