You are using Wrap panel so you need to specify the width it supposed to take... since wrappanel is inside a items host control wrap panel itself cannot calculate the width.It will try to take all the width with respective to Orientation (in your case its horizontal)
Here is the sample code with list box as items host... in this code i have binded the wrappanel width to the actual width of the list box so that it will never take more width than the list box and also i disabled the horizontal scrolling which you don't need for horizontal orientation and vertical wrapping
Note: Make sure to change item template before using following code and it will work with all items hosts like ListView, ItemsControl...
<ListBox Width="500" Height="500" Name="listbox" ScrollViewer.HorizontalScrollBarVisibility="Disabled">
<ListBox.ItemsPanel>
<ItemsPanelTemplate>
<WrapPanel Orientation="Horizontal" Width="{Binding ActualWidth,ElementName=listbox}"></WrapPanel>
</ItemsPanelTemplate>
</ListBox.ItemsPanel>
<ListBox.ItemTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<Grid Height="100" Width="100">
<TextBlock Text="{Binding}" VerticalAlignment="Center" HorizontalAlignment="Center"/>
</Grid>
</DataTemplate>
</ListBox.ItemTemplate>
</ListBox>
For ItemsControl
<ItemsControl Grid.Row="3"
Width="100" Height="200"
ItemsSource="{Binding Controls}"
VerticalAlignment="Bottom" Background="{x:Null}" BorderBrush="{x:Null}"
Name="listbox"
>
<ItemsControl.ItemsPanel>
<ItemsPanelTemplate>
<WrapPanel IsItemsHost="True" Orientation="Horizontal" Width="{Binding ActualWidth,ElementName=listbox}"></WrapPanel>
</ItemsPanelTemplate>
</ItemsControl.ItemsPanel>
<ItemsControl.Template>
<ControlTemplate>
<ScrollViewer x:Name="ScrollViewer" Padding="{TemplateBinding Padding}">
<ItemsPresenter />
</ScrollViewer>
</ControlTemplate>
</ItemsControl.Template>
<ItemsControl.ItemTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<Grid Height="30" Width="30">
<TextBlock Text="{Binding}" VerticalAlignment="Center" HorizontalAlignment="Center"/>
</Grid>
</DataTemplate>
</ItemsControl.ItemTemplate>
</ItemsControl>