From my experience from sending e-mail marketing. I do not think that this is an issue with mutt. E-mail can take many different paths to get to your server, and if you are sending 10,000 more than likely a couple of issues could occur:
- Your ip address and your sender e-mail address will get classed as spam.
- Your sending so much traffic that some servers will just give up, and not send the e-mail.
- Your ISP will see a lot of traffic and block you.
- All the above.
When it comes to sending e-mail you really have to be careful because it can be a big pain to get taken off spam lists, and not to mention you can upset clients.
It's also always important to include an op-out link.
My advice is to take a break, and wait a day and you will see e-mails (that have not been dropped) appear over time. As long as they don't get classed as Spam, which I think a lot of them will do.