First you need to add an action listener to whichever RadioButton needs to be pressed before the button is active.
Like this:
someRadioButton.addActionListener(new ActionListener() {
public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent arg0) {
someButton.enabled(true);
}
});
And secondly for the only one RadioButton used at a time you need a ButtonGroup such as:
ButtonGroup myButtonGroup = new ButtonGroup();
myButtonGroup.add(someRadioButton);
Add all the RadioButtons you want into a group.
Hope this helps :)