I'm not at all clear what you want, but word boundaries will probably do what you ask.
Does this work for you?
/\b(address|alias|parents|members|notes|host|name)\b(?!\t{5})/
Update
Having understood your problem better, does this do what you want?
/\b(address|alias|parents|members|notes|host|name)\b(?!\t{5}(?!\t))/