I think you can solve this way. But i think this is dirty way to achieve this
I check in head.phtml
and its working for me
<?php
$jsget= $this->getCssJsHtml();//all magento js/css store in $jsget variable
$jquertcheck=strpos($jsget, 'jquery');
//and check with jquery word contain or not or you can find more possibility qith jquery word
Where $this
is Mage_Page_Block_Html_Head
block
if($jquertcheck==false) { ?>
// if it doesn't contain jquery
word then you can include jquery
<script src="<?php echo $this->getSkinUrl("js")?>/jquery.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
<?php
}
?>
Let me know if it works or not .
I think someone can post other solution to achieve this