Use the strptime
method for date and supply the format.
Date.strptime("4/15/2014","%m/%d/%Y")
#=> #<Date: 2014-04-15 ((2456763j,0s,0n),+0s,2299161j)>
You will probably have to specify a call back like before_update
if you want the conversion to happen in the model.
e.g.
class YourModel < ActiveRecord::Base
before_update :format_date
def format_date
date_field = Date.strptime(date_field,'%m/%d/%Y')
end
end