You have just stumbled onto the subtle but important difference between message confidentiality and message integrity/authentication.
Confidentiality is what you are currently doing it ensures that the message can't be read in transit without the associated key but it can't ensure that the message hasn't been altered during transit (attacks on early crypto systems involved modifying the encrypted message to inject or reveal information about the crypto system). Your problem is a variant of this in that if you happened to find a key that decrypted the message "surrender" to "bombs away" then there is no way to know that they key was switched.
Integrity deals with ensuring that what is decrypted is what was actually encrypted in the first place and can also ensure Authentication (who encrypted it) depending on the model used. Integrity is best achieved by using a mode of operation the supports it intrinsically such as GCM but from a cursory glance crypto-js doesn't support any integrity modes.
This leaves you with a manual approach which requires producing and sending a HMAC along with the encrypted message.
var message = "Message";
var passphrase = "Secret Passphrase";
var encrypted = CryptoJS.AES.encrypt(message, passphrase).toString();
var hmac = CryptoJS.HmacSHA256(encrypted, CryptoJS.SHA256(passphrase)).toString();
var transitmessage = hmac + encrypted;
//other side
var transithmac = transitmessage.substring(0, 64);
var transitencrypted = transitmessage.substring(64);
var decryptedhmac = CryptoJS.HmacSHA256(transitencrypted, CryptoJS.SHA256(passphrase)).toString();
alert(transithmac == decryptedhmac);
var decrypted = CryptoJS.AES.decrypt(transitencrypted, passphrase).toString(CryptoJS.enc.Utf8);
alert(decrypted.toString(CryptoJS.enc.Utf8));
In theory the IV should also be prepended to the encrypted message before the HMAC call but I wasn't sure how to get the IV back out with crypto-js and I was hoping to keep this example simple enough and unless you expect to be a target of the NSA this should be enough as the IV already modifies the encrypted message.