You can't use those Amazon servers because they're authoritative-only (they'll only tell you about domains they know about, instead of acting as a recursive proxy). You can use Google's public DNS servers at 8.8.8.8 and 8.8.4.4 for that field.
(original answer below)
You need to create an A record that points at the elastic IP assigned to your mail server (for example, mail.yoursite.com
points at 1.2.3.4). Then, you'd create an MX record for yoursite.com
that points at mail.yoursite.com
. Finally, I believe you would give MailEnable mail.yoursite.com
, but I'm not 100% sure on that.