The function schDataGrid_LoadingRow is called for every single row. So instead of looping all your items, take out the item of the row:
var dr = e.Row.Item as yourItem
// Other stuff....
if (difference.Days <= 0)
{
e.Row.Background = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.ForestGreen);
e.Row.Foreground = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.White);
}
else if (difference.Days > 0 && difference.Days <= 60)
{
e.Row.Background = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.Orange);
e.Row.Foreground = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.Black);
}
else if (difference.Days > 60)
{
e.Row.Background = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.Red);
e.Row.Foreground = new SolidColorBrush(Colors.White);
}