How can I style a custom control based on if any of its children have focus?

Question

We have a custom canvas which has specialized nodes that behave a lot like a standard MDI application's windows. The desired behavior is that if any of the child controls of the "window" have the focus, then that "window" is said to be active.

Now the IsFocused property doesn't seem to cascade, meaning if a child control has the focus, it's container is not also set to 'focused' so we can't use that. For the same reason, we can't set the IsFocused property on the container as I believe that would steal it from the child.

My only thought is to create a new DP called HasChildWithFocus or something like that, then in the code-behind, listen for the bubbled events and set that flag. Not sure that's the best way to go. (We may implement that as a combination attached property/attached behavior kinda thing.)

But of course it would be much better if we could simply ask a control 'Hey... do you or any of your children have the focus?'

So can you?