Should I insert and delete record OR insert and update record for LIKE/UNLIKE button? Which one is more cost effective?

Question

In a project in which I need to implement like/unlike functionality, I want to know which approach would better than other from performance point of view. If I have to go with insert delete, then what would happen if someone like/unlike it so many times (Then probably most of primary key numbers will be occupied based on like/unlike)?
Does anyone know how social networking sites do it?

EDIT:
My table is as below:

CREATE TABLE `junc_user_share_like` (
 `id` int(10) unsigned NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT,
 `jusid` int(10) unsigned NOT NULL,
 `liker` mediumint(8) unsigned NOT NULL,
 `when` timestamp NOT NULL DEFAULT CURRENT_TIMESTAMP ON UPDATE CURRENT_TIMESTAMP,
 PRIMARY KEY (`id`),
 UNIQUE KEY `jusid` (`jusid`,`liker`),
 KEY `liker` (`liker`),
 CONSTRAINT `junc_user_share_like_ibfk_1` FOREIGN KEY (`liker`) REFERENCES `user` (`uid`) ON DELETE CASCADE ON UPDATE CASCADE,
 CONSTRAINT `junc_user_share_like_ibfk_2` FOREIGN KEY (`jusid`) REFERENCES `junc_user_share` (`jusid`) ON DELETE CASCADE ON UPDATE CASCADE
) ENGINE=InnoDB

EDIT 2:
As you said with last updates this is what I've inferred:

INSERT INTO likes SET jusid=$jusid, liker=$liker
UPDATE junc_user_share SET likes=likes+1 WHERE id=$id

This works great for likes, but what if someone wants to undo his like? Should I delete record from likes? My problem is exactly here? What to do here?

Answer 1

Denormalize.

• have a table with the likes and unlikes (Who did what to which item)
• have a likes and a unlikes field on the items table, both starting with 0

On a like/unlike do (assuming 1=like, 0=unlike)

INSERT INTO likes_unlikes SET item=[id of item], user=[id of user], action=[0|1];
UPDATE items SET likes=IF([action]=1,likes+1,likes), unlikes=IF([action]=0,unlikes+1,unlikes) WHERE id=[id of item]

A UNIQUE KEY on likes_unlikes(item,user) gives you uniqueness as a present.

Edit

After discussion, if you just have likes, but no dislikes, the situation is even easier:

• only a likes table is needed with item and user id
• only a likes field is needed on the items table

the queries are now something like

INSERT INTO likes SET item=[id of item], user=[id of user];
UPDATE items SET likes=likes+1 WHERE id=[id of item]

and for reversal of a like:

DELETE FROM likes WHERE item=[id of item] AND user=[id of user];
UPDATE items SET likes=likes-1 WHERE id=[id of item]