Since servlet 3.0, a jar file placed under WEB-INF/lib can contain resources that will be served directly by the webapp. These resources must be placed under the META-INF/resources directory of the jar file.
So if your tag library jar contains a file META-INF/resources/js/MyTaglib.js
, this file will be directly available using the URL
http://the.host.com/theWebApp/js/MyTaglib.js
If you're targetting pre-servlet3.0 webapps, then tell the developers to deploy the CSS and JS files of your taglib under a specific directory in the webapp.