According to documentation at (http://thickbox.net/):
Important to Remember: Add all other query parameters before the TB_iframe parameters. Everything after the "TB" is removed from the URL.
So, try add custID before TB_iframe. And then you will be able to operate with a variable in the script, such as access them via $_GET['custID']
. For example:
var url1='<?php echo SITEURL ?>/xome/invoice/manage_project?custID='+$('#customerID').val() + '&TB_iframe=true&height=800&width=700&inlineId=innerDiv&class=thickbox';