Maybe read the documentation for MERGE
:
MERGE
[ TOP ( expression ) [ PERCENT ] ]
[ INTO ] <target_table> [ WITH ( <merge_hint> ) ] [ [ AS ] table_alias ]
USING <table_source>
ON <merge_search_condition>
[ WHEN MATCHED [ AND <clause_search_condition> ]
THEN <merge_matched> ] [ ...n ]
[ WHEN NOT MATCHED [ BY TARGET ] [ AND <clause_search_condition> ]
THEN <merge_not_matched> ]
[ WHEN NOT MATCHED BY SOURCE [ AND <clause_search_condition> ]
THEN <merge_matched> ] [ ...n ]
...
WHEN NOT MATCHED BY SOURCE
is what you need