Modifying the rule-set in the question:
You may try this:
RewriteEngine on
RewriteCond %{HTTP_REFERER} !^$
RewriteCond %{HTTP_REFERER} !^http(s)?://(www\.)?siteabc.com [NC]
RewriteCond %{HTTP_REFERER} !^http(s)?://(www\.)?sitexyz.com [NC]
# Add this other exception
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !_thumb\. [NC]
RewriteRule \.(jpg|jpeg|png|gif)$ http://example.com/images/bandwidth.png [NC,R,L]