A watchdog task that monitors the status of all the other tasks is a good solution. But instead of a counter, consider using a status flag for each task. The status flag should have three possible values: UNKNOWN, ALIVE, and ASLEEP. When a periodic task runs, it sets the flag to ALIVE. Tasks that block on an asynchronous event should set their flag to ASLEEP before they block and ALIVE when the run. When the watchdog monitor task runs it should kick the watchdog if every task is either ALIVE or ASLEEP. Then the watchdog monitor task should set all of the ALIVE flags to UNKNOWN. (ASLEEP flags should remain ASLEEP.) The tasks with the UNKNOWN flag must run and set their flags to ALIVE or ASLEEP again before the monitor task will kick the watchdog again.
See the "Multitasking" section of this article for more details: http://www.embedded.com/design/debug-and-optimization/4402288/Watchdog-Timers