Judging from the sources AE.Net.Mail isn't strongly typed which is something GAC-deployment (and SharePoint) require.
To add the binary to the GAC you must download the binaries of AE.Net.Mail from Github, sign the assembly and compile it yourself. This is easy, simply follow this guide http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms247123(v=vs.100).aspx
Remember to compile for .net 3.5 since that's what SP2010 supports, it wont recognize net4 assemblies