You need a reference to the actual instance of the mainForm. You currently don't.
You can try passing a reference in the constructor:
Public Class BusinessQuestion
' code...
Public Sub New(mainMenu As TabControl, tabPage3 As TabPage)
InitializeControls()
Me.mainMenu = mainMenu
Me.TabPage3 = tabPage3
End Sub
' code...
End Class
Your BusinessSalesPage should probably look something like this:
Public Class BusinessSalesPage
Inherits System.Windows.Forms.Form
Public Sub Button1_Click(sender As Object, e As EventArgs) Handles Button1.Click
mainMenu.SelectedTab = TabPage2
Dim bq As New BusinessQuestion(mainMenu, TabPage3)
bq.ShowDialog()
End Sub
End Class